FAQs – The Fine Print

  • Lil, what am I investing in a date with you? What are you offering? What aren't you offering?


    You can find my rates here.

    I offer you my 100% presence and authenticity as well as my time, passion and expertise. Every date is different. Let's create our moment together. 
Write me your wishes, fears, fantasies. What you've always wanted to try. What gives you peace of mind. That which touches you.

    I do not offer:

    • free e-mail banter (I prefer it over dinner, IRL)

    • or unpaid chat entertainment (please contact me via my OnlyFans for that)

    • unsafe practices

    • or dates with new clients without a deposit.



  • On Timing and Duration

    Dates could look like that:

    Le Week-End let’s escape for 2 nights

    Overnight Sleepover, One-Night-Stand. 12h to 18h. Incl. 6h of uninterrupted sleep. or an Overnight (own room) OR Late-night dates beginning after 10PM or ending after 2AM.

    Wine & Dine Perfect date of 5-8h for connaisseurs AND lovers of fine dining.

    A Brief Encounter up to 3h. The date includes social time: Aperitivo, drinks at the bar, tea time and a piece of cake? Beginning from 10PM an addition of 300/h applies.

    After Work A short date of 1 up to 2h. Beginning from 10PM an addition of 300€/h applies. Berlin only..

    Meetings longer than 2 hours on must include social time: A movie, drinks at the bar, an aperitivo or a short dinner or luncheon. If you are more the hotel-room-person, we can chat about rates for full private time.

    All dates ending after midnight an addition of 300/h applies or it’s better to book an overnight.

    Taxi fares home are always welcome, too.

    Outside of Berlin
    My minimum booking duration on tour outside of Berlin is 3 hours or the corresponding fee for shorter bookings.

    If a return journey home is no longer possible, extra accommodation costs are required.

    For travels to you and FMTY my booking minimum is 6 hours plus all travel costs, of course. For longer travels, a travel honorarium for the duraton of my travel needs to be agreed upon.

  • Deposit, Cancellation and Screening

    If we haven't met yet, screening is part of the booking process. It’s to ensure my ability to plan, my safety and for you, a relaxed date that is well suited to you. The easiest method is to tell me 2 colleagues you have met before, provide your Linkedin, name and hotel room # or pay a deposit: I offer many different discreet deposit methods, some of which you can find here.

    Your deposit is considered a date reservation and is due no later than 48h after I’ve send you the deposit details. Your deposit will be deducted from my total fee at the date. It is non-refundable, in case of cancellation by you. However, it can be transferred to a new date within 3 months. If this is not an option, the deposit is considered a cancellation- and processing fee.

    If I have to cancel because you display unsafe behaviour, the deposit amount will not be refunded.

    If I by any chance I have to cancel our date due to personal reasons, I will suggest alternative dates. If none of those work for you, I will refund the deposit via the former method of delivery.

  • How else can I show you appreciation?

    Appreciation is a wonderful prelude. We all like the recognition of elaborate planning work. I have many channels for your small tokens of appreciation: Here, too, completely login-free in US dollars and crypto. Ask me for more.

    In Germany GIFT VOUCHERS are available in supermarkets and petrol stations from Spotify, Douglas or Zalando. I also appreciate online from Voo Store Berlin, Vabali SPA, Other Nature, Nose Paris Parfums, Atelier Bordelle and Tisja Damen Lingerie, DSTM Bodywear or the Walther König Bookstore.

    For the discreet delivery of my fee in a colourful, not glued up envelope, I like books and scents. You can always find a selection fresh on my WISH LIST.

  • 100% Discretion

    I date 'high-profile' clients and am verified here and on all other channels. Our dating is 100% consensual and we respect each other's need for discretion: The screening information you provide will remain confidential forever. What happens between us remains confidential. When you book me, you also commit to protecting my privacy accordingly.

  • Who are you dating? Do you date couples?

    I date people of any origin, skin colour, gender identity or body type.

    I charge 50% extra for couple dates. To ensure that all parties are equally enthusiastic, I have a separate preliminary conversation with both of them.

  • Duos? Threesomes? Orgies? Can you bring a girlfriend?

    Yes! I have incredible friends for duo dates and small orgies. Keep in mind the extra planning and fee per person.

    My friend Yve Fall and I love to turn your head in Zurich - it's also allowed to get a little dicier. Curious?

    All my friends and crushes:

    https://www.lillovesyou.com/duos